I was born at least 40 years too soon. I believe the young folks now days have a much better chance of finding themselves than when I was a young guy. The new generation is asking questions and expecting answers. They live in a more enlightened world. But things were different in my "B.S." days (before Sugar). You were expected to remain a dumb cluck until somehow you found the right girl. Then, after the marriage vows, you were supposed to have instant knowledge of the whole darn works of life and live happily ever after.
"...somehow you found the right girl."